Something to think about...the difference (that fine line) between shame and humiliation. The sad fact that it happens both at home and in the classroom. This lady makes sense and gives some very good advice that we all need to hear.

Go to this website:  http://www.upworthy.com/one-of-my-favorite-authors-says-theres-something-we-should-remove-from-all-classrooms?c=ufb1

shame:   a feeling of guilt, regret, or sadness that you have because you know you have done
               something wrong

humiliation:  the action of humiliating someone or the state of being humiliated
         humiliate:  make (someone) feel ashamed and foolish by injuring their dignity and self-respect, 
         esp. publicly.